what is Infatuation and its 5 signs
Being infatuated is both good and bad, but mostly it has its crazy and weird side. If you become infatuated, you easily become foolish. Some say it expresses a crazy, extreme love of something – a person, a style, a band, anything.
You’re better than the FBI when it comes to stalking
You know everything about him without him telling you. You’re so good at stalking that the FBI can hire you as one of them. You have checked out all of his ex-girlfriends’ Facebook accounts, his family members’ accounts and made a fake Instagram account just so you can follow his private account. Way to go, girl!
You can’t stop thinking about him
Doodles at the back of your notebook are your full names. You daydream about him and you being together. You just can’t stop thinking about him. You can easily connect anything you come across with to him. It’s almost impossible to stop thinking about him.
The phone lights up and you go crazy
You have been messaging each other for the past week, and it has been bliss ever since. However, the messaging game lie lowed for this week, and you wonder what happened to him. It feels so crazy that everything your phone lights up, you frantically check out if he texted. And when he does, butterflies rush into your stomach like a blazing fire that gives you cold sweat like never before. If unfortunately, it wasn’t him that messaged you, your mood goes down the drain, anxieties come back again, and you wonder why he hasn’t replied yet. This is the part where sanity and insanity battle within your mind.
You think of your future together
How sweet is he? How caring and thoughtful could he be? What could he be like when you have a family together? It’s not crazy, these are just some of a few things you think of when you’re not busy texting, stalking, or talking to him. In short, you’re simply obsessed.
You notice everything good about him
You have that special power, which is, to detect only the good things in him. You don’t seem to notice the negative qualities. If you do, you don’t even care. This is quite a danger for some because you might not notice that you are with someone who does not suit you well after the initial infatuation period is over.
After reading everything about the signs of infatuation, would it creep you out if someone is like this towards you? Or would it be exciting if the person you’re infatuated with is also infatuated with you?
The feelings of infatuation fade away as familiarity grows between two people, expectations that weren’t there in the first place soon diminish and reality begins. Then you’ll find yourself again in a state of sanity and insanity. Are you willing to go to the next level?